Darcey Silva Fears She’ll ‘Die Alone’ After Ending Ho-Hum Relationship Over ‘Bizarre’ Sexting
Darcey Silva is not giving up on discovering the one.
On Monday’s episode of Darcey & Stacey, Darcey ready to go on her first date since ending her engagement following her cut up from fiancé Georgi Rusev.
The 90 Day Fiancé alum, 48, instructed her daughters — Aspen, 15, and Aniko, 17 — that she wished to look “snatched” for her date with Mike, who she met through a friend at a yacht occasion. Her daughters have been thrilled to study that her new suitor was “the identical precise age” as their mom.
Darcey additionally admitted to some first date jitters, saying, “I have not dated in two years and I’ve by no means dated a mature man like Mike so I am nervous.”
Regardless of her nerves, Darcey had excessive hopes for the date, sharing, “Mike appears very put collectively, like, he is a good-looking man. He is a enterprise proprietor. He is very profitable so I am excited to see the place this will lead.”
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When she arrived on the restaurant, Mike instructed Darcey that he “took the freedom to order” her meals — one thing that Darcey admitted she had blended emotions about.
“It is a bit unusual that Mike is ordering for me with out asking me what I wished however on the identical time, it is a bit of a breath of contemporary air as a result of he is taking cost and the fellows that I used to this point by no means did that for me,” she mentioned.
The pair then indulged in “chocolate therapy”, the place they poured melted chocolate on their arms and licked it off. “Mike is licking that good. His tongue seems like he is doing a mighty high-quality job,” Darcey mentioned.
Regardless of the distinctive — and fairly memorable — expertise, Darcey questioned if the pair might have a future collectively.
“Mike’s main the dialog. He is speaking quite a bit. However, he is speaking quite a bit about himself. He is not likely asking me something,” she shared. “Like, it is beginning to make me really feel like I am not drawn to his, you understand, persona.”
Mike later requested Darcey out on a second date and regardless of her hesitations, she agreed, saying it will be a “enjoyable factor to do.”
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She additional defined her blended emotions about Mike in a confessional, saying, “I am not likely certain how I really feel. Mike actually went out of his approach to make me really feel particular and wine and dined, and you understand, revered. However, I really feel like that one factor lacking that I actually want is that on the spot love connection. However, that is floor degree in order that’s the place I am confused. I do not know if I ought to give it extra of an opportunity or simply lower my losses.”
Darcey then confided in her new buddy Leslie — who launched her to Mike — about how he had been texting her continuous since their date. She revealed one textual content from him which learn, “P.S. Not kissing your ass (though would luv 2…lol) however actually, you will have impacted my life positively by being a you [sic], thanks.”
In a confessional, Darcey revealed that Mike’s texting had made her really feel uncomfortable.
“Mike has been texting quite a bit, like, some loopy bizarre texts. Like, he is attempting to textual content however he is actually sexting,” she shared. “I do not even know for those who can name it sexting. It is simply bizarre. I do not suppose that is engaging. It is corny. Awkward. That is a giant turnoff. When Georgi and I’d textual content, we might ship actually express stuff. We have been actually sexting.”
Darcey admitted that she does not suppose they’re a “love match” and Leslie suggested her to “let him down straightforward.” Darcey then instantly known as him to say they need to stay on a “buddy degree” reasonably than persevering with in a romantic relationship.
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The failed first date made Darcey really feel “a bit discouraged” and fear that it was going to be “quite a bit tougher” than she anticipated to seek out love. In flip, she determined to strive utilizing matchmaker Michelle — who can also be a courting coach — and hoped to study “learn how to date in another way.”
Michelle suggested Darcey to this point nearer to her age as a substitute of courting youthful males and cease utilizing filtered images, which have been “not the appropriate illustration” of her.
In a confessional, Darcey lastly acquired to the basis of her points with males.
“My dad and mom acquired divorced after we have been 12 and I do not actually really feel like I had a great instance to see and know what a wholesome relationship seems like,” she shared. “My mother — she by no means acquired remarried. She by no means actually dated a lot after the divorce. My dad — regardless that he is had a number of marriages, they weren’t long-lasting. I am certain it affected each Stacey and I, and now I simply really feel like I do not need to be like my mother. Lonely. She’s lonely. Daddy too. Typically, I feel we simply select the mistaken ones ‘trigger we do not wanna be lonely.”
“That is why I really feel like I want to speak to Michelle and attempt to determine issues out for myself so I do not, you understand, die alone,” she added.
Michelle instructed her that she had been turning “a blind eye to crimson flags” in her past relationships and promised to introduce her to “top quality” folks.
“I am having some revelations. It is undoubtedly sort of a impolite awakening,” she admitted to cameras. “I imply, I acquired to place within the work. I acquired to dig deeper. If it does not work out, I haven’t got anybody else responsible however myself and that scares me that I might fail once more and by no means discover the appropriate one and I do not need to die alone.”
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Elsewhere within the episode, Darcey’s twin sister Stacey Silva continued to butt heads together with her fiancé Florian Sukaj over wedding ceremony planning after he deliberate a “massive shock” for her.
“I’ll present to Stacey that wedding ceremony planning is necessary to me. And I would like Stacey to have her dream wedding ceremony,” he mentioned in a confessional. “However, to do the marriage in Europe goes to be costlier, the flights, every little thing, goes to be double costly. So I must persuade Stacey we nonetheless can have the massive dream wedding ceremony right here in Miami.”
Whereas scouting a location for his or her massive day, Stacey was lower than impressed by the primary spot — a public park — that Florian picked. She took specific points with the birds, which have been “uncontrolled.” She additionally did not like South Pointe Park Pier and he or she nervous concerning the “privateness” of the placement.
Tensions between the pair hit a boiling level when she realized Florian was attempting to economize on the marriage. She admitted, “I waited a very long time for this wedding ceremony and I would like it to be stunning and I would like it to be a dream come true. I am simply bored with every little thing being half-ass and we have to face the true purpose why Florian is reducing corners. It is time that Florian get a job.”
“I am simply attempting to carry it collectively proper now as a result of I am fuming inside. Florian [has] had his inexperienced card for a bit over a yr now and he has not even tried to search for a job,” she continued. “I hoped with planning this wedding ceremony, it will gentle a hearth underneath his ass… I see a giant lack of effort and it is irritating as a result of I am carrying all the burden on my again. He wants to begin contributing. If he does not assist out, I do not know the place that leaves us.”
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Darcey & Stacey airs Mondays at 8 p.m. ET on TLC.